Wednesday, October 21, 2015

What's New With Emilia?

Our little Emilia is now six years old.  I can hardly believe it.  It seems like yesterday we brought home a sickly and frail 25-months-old from Dobrich.  Emilia continues to be a very tender and tiny girl.  She weighs about 15 kg and is 104 cm tall.  But she has a huge, loving heart and is so affectionate.  If you need someone to make you smile and brighten your day, Emilia's the one.  It's easy to hurt her feelings or push her past her max as she still deals with the effects of trauma, but in her comfort zone, she's confident and happy.  She's delightful company, too, when she is relaxed and doesn't feel any pressure or anxiety.





When it comes to changes and transitions, Emilia is our kiddo that struggles the most.  Therefore, I was anxious to send her into half-day Kindergarten this year.  Fortunately, all of my fears have been dispelled now as Emilia's doing beautifully in her class.  She knows her teachers' names and is especially fond of her aide whom she calls My Miss T.  I have had the privilege of volunteering in her classroom and seen the kindness and understanding her classmates extend toward her.  Emilia clearly is learning new things in the school setting.  Playing tag with Ella recently I heard her yell, "I gotcha" which she had to have picked up during recess.  Emilia is up to reading 28 sight words, 18 of which are on the list of 29 sight words she is supposed to master this school year.  Her teacher reports that Emilia is making good progress with letter sounds (last I checked she knew 15 consonant sounds and three of the ten vowel sounds) and trying really hard to trace letters.  Cognitively, she wants to write, but physically she does not seem able yet.  Simple math concepts are still elusive, but I see her now being able to distinguish between big and small and there may be some improvement with one to one correspondence.  Her teachers and I are in touch nearly every day and they have told me that they are often surprised by the information Emilia absorbs.  Even if she does not seem engaged or interested at the time, she can later in some way re-produce the material or refer to what took place.

Emilia's speech is still much behind her same age peers, but she keeps making progress all the time.  We are hearing more and more sentences up to four and five words long.  Recently while running errands on a lovely fall day she told us in the car, "I want Christmas.  Christmas tree.  Jingle bells.  I want happy."  Apparently she didn't think we got the point because later that afternoon, she went around the house saying, "Hohoho" over and over again.  Emilia can make statements like, "No bus yet" or "Icecream is cold" or "I fell down" or" See you soon" or "Knee hurts" or "I want Rex's pizza" or" I play blocks" or "Banana open, please" or "I want to sit on the couch" or "Ella is so pretty."  Her single word vocabulary is quite large.  She knows and correctly uses words like oboe, caribou, spooky, and crowbar. That said, Emilia is increasingly upset with her struggles to express herself and often resorts to screaming when she wants us to know she disagrees or is frustrated.

At the moment Emilia is a big fan of large vehicles.  She especially likes tractors about which she sings a song and firetrucks.  She watches firetruck videos on youtube almost daily.  She knows where these videos are and navigates to them herself as she does with other favorite videos.  Emilia plays with dolls and often rocks them in her arms and sings to them.  She can ride a bike with training wheels.  She completes simple puzzles on the Kindle and likes to comb my hair.  She can feed herself slowly with utensils, get undressed, and stay dry for an entire day at home.



 Emilia is the child of ours who wakes up with a huge smile on her face every day. She throws open her bedroom door and runs to find Craig and me to give us big hugs and say her version of I love you over and over again.  I can't imagine a better morning greeting than what we receive from our youngest daughter each day.  She's a blessing through and through.

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

Falling For Fall

The weather this month has been all over the place with daytime highs sometimes close to 80 degrees and nights down into the 40s.  Over the weekend, we finally had our first frost.  Craig and I decided it was as good a time as any to have some fall fun with the kids.  So, on Saturday after all the therapies and errands, we made a campfire and roasted our dinner and dessert.




On Sunday we went trick or treating at the zoo.  I don't know why of all places the zoo is a big landmark in measuring our kids' progress over the years, but every time we go, we can see how far they have come since the last visit.  Lately, all three of them are into petting animals (except for dogs in Ella's case - she's terrified of them).


We saw quite a few animals still out for the season and, of course, stopped at our favorites.  Add a ride on the carousel and a few sweet treats and we had a good time.

Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Amazing Average

At the beginning of the school year, Ella participated in required MAP testing in math and reading.  Today we received the results and are completely blown away by them.  After less than one year of speaking English and of receiving targeted academic input, Ella scored only seven points below the Norm Grade Level Mean RIT for math and one point above the Norm Grade Level Mean RIT for reading.  Most surprisingly, her vocabulary use and functions were scored as high average.  In my totally biased opinion this is an incredible accomplishment by our determined little girl.  Average is beautiful!  Go, Ella!

Monday, October 12, 2015

A Precious Gift From Gyumri

Friends of ours recently traveled to Ella's former orphanage to meet their daughter-to-be.  They returned with a most precious gift for us: 75 digital photos of Ella's first six years.  We are so thankful to our friends, the new orphanage director, and the orphanage staff for this invaluable treasure.











Friday, October 9, 2015

Emilia Is Six

We recently celebrated Emilia's sixth birthday.  My baby is growing up.


Commenting on her tea set gift, "I have tiny cup present." 

Emilia's actual birthday happened to be a day off school for the girls, so Craig and I arranged for a visit at a firehouse where our friend Bryan is a full-time firefighter.  Given Emilia's current interest in firetrucks, we knew she would love this surprise.  After some initial hesitation, she had so much fun.  And she told us many parts of the firetruck: wheel, hose, ladder, ax, crowbar...


A ride around the block in a real firetruck

Trying on Bryan's equipment

After lunch and a nap pit stop at home, we headed to a local pumpkin patch.  We weren't actually all that interested in the pumpkins, but came mostly to ride the wagons which were pulled by tractors, another one of Emilia's favorite things at the moment.  We had such a good time on a gorgeous fall day riding around a big farm.  They also had several tractors parked and Emilia climbed onto all of them and pretended to drive.   She kept singing her little tractor song, too.  I think the tractors were the biggest hit of the day for her.


On the hayride

We decided to keep Emilia's party with family and friends small and low key at a local park in early afternoon.  Our theme was "You Color Our World."  I made a garland and party favors from paint cards I picked up for free at Lowes.  Our supplies were crazy colorful and the DF chocolate cupcakes had rainbow sprinkles.  We also served banitsa, a traditional Bulgarian dish, and fresh fruit.  We had some paint on hand for anyone interested, but mostly the kids played away on the playground.  We asked our guests to wear their most colorful outfits which everyone did.




Happy birthday, sweetest girl.
We treasure your hugs and kisses, your giggles
and your unstoppable big belly laughs at life's slapstick moments.
We see your beauty, inside and out,
your compassion for others,
your talent for bringing happiness and smiles to those around you.
We know when you scream in frustration or disagreement
it's because you have more to share than you're able to verbalize.
We're always listening to your words and your heart.
We love you just the way you are.



Tuesday, October 6, 2015

Picture Of The Day

Note from Rex's therapist: "Today after cot time, Rex took the blanket over to 'H' to put over top of him.  The two of them always swap blankets, funny boys. Rex was putting the blanket as gently as he could over top of 'H' and even tried to get on the same cot as him. That didn't really work, the cot is a bit small. Rex got off and readjusted the blanket for it to cover 'H.'  Super cute that Rex realized 'H' was still sleeping and gave up the blanket he was using to cover 'H' up."