Sunday, December 29, 2013

Now I Know My ABC's

Emilia has recently become quite interested in letters and is making incredible progress on identifying them.  Here she is earlier this week working on letter recognition with our Ms. Rie:


If Emilia can manage to learn all lower and upper case letters by the end of May, she will have completed half of her kindergarten readiness requirements.  The ones she does not yet fulfill have to do with speech, like being able to say her own name and address.  I think we are a while away from meeting those due to apraxia, but Emilia does not legally have to start kindergarten until 2015, so we have plenty of time.  Right now, we are just so amazed at the progress she is making across the board.  Go Emilia!

Friday, December 27, 2013

IAC 267 Results

The following referrals were issued in IAC session 267 which was held on November 27, 2013:

1) Cyprus dossier from March 2010 referred a female child aged 2 years

2) Spanish dossier from May 2010 referred a male child aged 2 years and 2 months with features in health status

3) Spanish dossier from May 2010 referred a male child aged 2 years

4)  Spanish dossier from May 2010 referred a male child aged 2 years and 11 months

5) Canadian dossier from September 2010 referred a female child aged 4 years and 9 months with features in health status

6) Italian dossier from December 2010 referred a female child aged 5 years and 4 months with features in health status

7) US dossier from April 2011 referred a male child aged 1 year and 4 months with a family history

8) Italian dossier from December 2011 referred a brother and sister aged 7 years and 7 months & 4 years and 1 month

9) Italian dossier from December 2012 referred a male child aged 9 years and 5 months

10) French dossier from June 2013 referred a female child aged 6 years and 3 months with features in health status

11) US dossier from November 2013 referred two waiting children (#1425 & #2040) with profiles on the MOJ site

12) US dossier from November 2013 referred two waiting children (# 1816 &#2162) with profiles on the MOJ site

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

From Our Family To Yours

Wishing you a Christmas filled with magic, 
goodwill, and happiness.

Photo by Carrie Lynne Photography

Love,

The Martinis

Friday, December 20, 2013

IAC 266 Results

The following referrals were issued in IAC Session 266 which was held on November 20, 2013:

1) French dossier from November 2009 referred a female child aged 4 years

2) Dutch dossier from May 2010 referred a male child aged 2 years and 1 month

3) Austrian dossier from June 2010 referred a male child aged 1 year and 11 months with features in health status

4)  German dossier from June 2010 referred a male child aged 1 year and 11 months with features in health status

5) US dossier from August 2010 referred a female child aged 3 years with features in health status and a family history

6) US dossier from December 2010 referred a male child aged 1 year and 6 months with a family history

7) US dossier from February 2012 referred a male child aged 1 year and 11 months with features in health status and a family history

8) US dossier from November 2012 referred twins, male and female, aged 1 year and 7 months with features in health status and a family history

9) Italian dossier from April 2013 referred a female child aged 9 years and 7 months

10) US dossier from November 2013 referred a waiting child (#2091) with a profile on the MOJ site

11) US dossier from November 2013 referred a waiting child (#1789) with a profile on the MOJ site

12) US dossier from November 2013 referred a waiting child (#1941) with a profile on the MOJ site

13) US dossier from November 2013 referred a waiting child (#1882) with a profile on the MOJ site

Monday, December 16, 2013

Our Girl Is A-Learning

Last spring Emilia wouldn't do anything but bang and throw these puzzle pieces.  Now she understands the concept of a puzzle and can do this one along with some others we have.  


And she definitely knows her family.


And her shapes.


We're so proud of Emilia's hard work and determination, resulting in such wonderful progress.

Thursday, December 12, 2013

IAC 265 Results

The following referrals were issued in IAC Session 265 which was held on November 13, 2013:

1) Greek dossier from March 2007 referred a female child aged 9 years and 8 months

2) Dutch dossier from May 2010 referred a male child aged 4 years and 2 months

3) Dutch dossier from May 2010 referred a male child aged 5 years and 5 months

4) Spanish dossier from May 2010 referred a male child aged 1 year and 9 months

5) French dossier from June 2011 referred a male child aged 6 years and 11 months with features in health status

6) Italian dossier from November 2011 referred twins, male and female, aged 7 years and 6 months

7) Italian dossier from May 2012 referred a male child aged 8 years and 5 months with features in health status

8) Italian dossier from February 2013 referred a female child aged 8 years and 10 months with a family history

9) US dossier from June 2013 referred a female child aged 10 years and 2 months with features in health status

10) Italian dossier from November 2013 referred two waiting children (#2073 & #2079) with profiles on the MOJ site

11) US dossier from November 2013 referred two waiting children (#1701 & #1155) with profiles on the MOJ site

12) US dossier from November 2013 referred a waiting child (#2193) with a profile on the MOJ site

13) US dossier from November 2013 referred a waiting child (#1010) with a profile on the MOJ site

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

GFDF - One Year In

Rex has now been eating a gluten-free, dairy-free diet for almost a full year.  I am not sure that we’ve seen the intense behavioral impact that some children experience with this diet, but Rex is doing better behaviorally which could be a function of time and maturity and have nothing to do with the diet.  We have been happy with the diet's effects on Rex’s growth and willingness to eat a greater variety of food.

In June 2012 at his medical check-up, Rex was diagnosed with clinical obesity.  Now, you’ve seen the boy and while short and stout, it seemed crazy to us that his weight placed him into that category.  Since starting the GFDF diet Rex’s weight has stabilized and he has gained height.  His current BMI is around 19 which solidly puts him in the normal range.

Rex is still a picky eater because he struggles with textures.  Foods like grapes and carrots go into his mouth where he tries to chew and get them down, but gags on them and then, understandably, spits them out.  Despite these challenges, we have found GFDF options for each meal of the day that work for Rex.

BREAKFAST

Coconut yogurt with granola
Bacon and waffle
Toast with jam/jelly
Go Free Dark Chocolate Trail Mix bar
Greens Vegan Peanut Butter and Dark Chocolate Crisp bar
Homemade fruit smoothie

LUNCH/SNACK

*Most of Rex’s lunches are at school.  I pack his lunch box to cover a morning snack, afternoon snack and the actual lunch, using a mix of these foods throughout the week:

Sandwiches (pbj, salami & cream cheese, hummus, cinnamon raisin bread with cream cheese, garlic and chive cream cheese, cold grilled cheese, Bee’s Knees Dark Chocolate Dreams, chicken pesto)
Tater Tots
Bananas
Chocolate almond pudding
Almonds
Two small cookies per day (about the size of Oreos)
GF Chex and other cereals
Applesauce
Van’s Cranberry Almond bar
Baked potato chips, tortilla chips, or veggie chips
Waffles / pancakes
Homemade muffins
Fresh fruit or vegetable (which he never eats, but sometimes tries with the help of his therapists)

DINNER

Homemade pizza with chicken, artichoke, garlic, and mushrooms
Homemade bagel pizza with ground beef and marinara sauce with hidden veggies
Grilled cheese
Banana avocado dip with rice crackers
Homemade chicken pesto dip with tortilla chips
Mashed potatoes
German potato cakes
Shepherd's pie with hidden veggies


Rex exclusively drinks 100% juices that are diluted with 50% water.  At school, he has begun to accept some plain water.  He prefers a salty snack over a sweet one any day.  On the rare occasions that he asks for dessert, he wants a spoonful of peanut butter or his peanut butter chocolate spread.  It’s hit and miss with soups and casseroles when it comes to Rex.  Sometimes he will eat them, other times not.  

Unfortunately, these dietary changes have not alleviated Rex's chronic and painful constipation which directly affects his behavior.  A few months ago, we got a big lab work-up for him and it turns out that his GI tract is very healthy.  He does not have yeast overgrowth, no bad bacteria, and lots of beneficial flora.  There is no bio-chemical explanation for his constipation.  The one and only thing that anyone can figure at this point is that it is a matter of muscle tone.  Rex had very low muscle tone when we adopted him and while he is much improved in this regard in the muscles that he consciously controls, the muscles of his GI tract may still be weak.  Hence, they do not move waste through his body as they should, causing the constipation.  We have tried many natural remedies, but they only had limited success. Right now, we are back to the evil Miralax of which Rex receives a dose every 60-72 hours.  In-between he takes soluble acacia fiber and an aloe based supplement called Guna Bowel.  We have had wonderful success with this combination so far, helping Rex with regular and much easier bowel movements.  However, we are not keen on making Miralax a long-term "solution" to this problem, so we plan to experiment with OTC laxatives in the new year.

Keeping a GFDF diet at home has been much easier than I anticipated a year ago.  Even when we are out and about, we can usually tie the kids over with a banana and an almond bar.  The most challenging aspect is eating at other people's homes, not to mention restaurants.  We usually have to bring a meal for Rex which is no problem.  However, Rex is very smart about food and he knows that what he is eating is different from everyone else's food.  He recognizes that what others are having may be more appealing to his own taste buds.  For example, we attended a Christmas party last week where the main dish was pizza.  I had packed Rex his favorite pizza which he gladly ate, but he still reached and looked with longing eyes at the cheesy goodness we were enjoying.  Fortunately, he has gotten much better at accepting a no though it's heartbreaking to deny him when it comes to food.

For now, we will continue on the GFDF path with an attempt to get more supplements into Rex's diet in 2014.  Wish us luck!

Monday, December 9, 2013

IAC 264 Results

The following referrals were issued in IAC Session 264 which was held on November 6, 2013:

1) French dossier from September 2010 referred twins, male and female, aged 7 years and 1 month

2) French dossier from October 2010 referred a female child aged 7 years and 8 months

3) Italian dossier from October 2011 referred a male child aged 7 years and 8 months

4) Italian dossier from April 2013 referred a female child aged 8 years and 10 months with features in health status

5) US dossier from October 2013 referred two waiting children (#1324 & #1931) with profiles on the MOJ site

Pay It Forward November & December

There were so many great causes to support in recent weeks that we had to spread our Pay It Forward funds a little thinner to reach more families in need.

First, we gave $10 to the Rieben Family who is bringing home three more boys from Bulgaria.  You can find out how to support them by visiting their blog.

Next, I contributed $20 to help a single mom get therapy for her newly adopted daughter from Bulgaria.    This older child is struggling more than anticipated with grief, loss, and difficult memories which need to be addressed through very specific therapy.  You can find out more and help here.

Our neighbors and friends, the Stolz Family, have decided to bring home another older boy with Down Syndrome.  This is their seventh special needs adoption.  I put $10 into their fundraising account here.

The Sutton Family is also adopting another child from Bulgaria.  You can help them via their blog.  I covered the $10 spot in their fundraiser.

And, my last ten bucks went to a little boy who is on my heart.  Neal is waiting for a family.  Please remember that there are two fundraisers still going on to grow his agency grant fund:

http://martiniadoptionroad.blogspot.com/2013/12/nuggets-for-neal-book-sale.html

http://martiniadoptionroad.blogspot.com/2013/11/nuggets-for-neal-stocking-stuffers-for.html

We are trying to have Neal's grant fund reach $1000 by 12/31/13.  We are only $250 away from this goal.  Please consider making a donation to help us meet this milestone.  If you have any questions, feel free to email me at viviane 8 at yahoo dot com.


For more information about Neal, contact waitingchild@hopscotchadoptions.org.

Friday, December 6, 2013

Caught Green-Handed


Instead of taking her nap today, Emilia decided she would spruce up her room a little bit... by decorating her bed sheet and frame:


I always enjoy the natural tones she chooses for her art work:


When I stripped the bed and walked the sheet over to the washer, Emilia got very excited.  She made me stop, so she could admire and explain her masterpiece, "Dot, dot, dot," she said and pointed, a big smile on her green-streaked face.

All of this, of course, happened three days on the heels of me telling Emilia's OT that she is not able to open markers on her own yet.  Note to self: remove markers from kids' bedroom.

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

IAC 263 Results

The following referrals were issued in IAC Session 263 which was held on October 30, 2013:

1) Dutch dossier from March 2010 referred a female child aged 2 years and 2 months

2) Luxembourg dossier from April 2010 referred a male child aged 1 year and 4 months

3) Dutch dossier from May 2010 referred a female child aged 1 year and 9 months with features in health status

4) Italian dossier from August 2011 referred a male child aged 7 years and 9 months

5) Italian dossier from October 2011 referred a female child aged 6 years and 7 months with features in health status

6) French dossier from February 2012 referred two brothers aged 3 years and 1 month & 1 year and 8 months with features in health status

7) US dossier from September 2012 referred a waiting child (#1856) with a profile on the MOJ site

8) French dossier from February 2013 referred a female child aged 9 years and 11 months

9) Danish dossier from May 2013 referred a male child aged 2 years and 2 months with features in health status

10) Italian dossier from August 2013 referred a male child aged 9 years and 6 months with features in health status

11) US dossier from October 2013 referred two waiting children (#1353 & #1979) with profiles on the MOJ site

12) Italian dossier from October 2013 referred a waiting child (#2133) with a profile on the MOJ site

13) US dossier from October 2013 referred a waiting child (#2087) with a profile on the MOJ site

14) US dossier from October 2013 referred a waiting child (#2053) with a profile on the MOJ site

15) Italian dossier from October 2013 referred two waiting children (#2056 & #2057) with profiles on the MOJ site

16) US dossier from October 2013 referred two waiting children (#711 & #1925) with profiles on the MOJ site

17) US dossier from October 2013 referred a waiting child (#1920) with a profile on the MOJ site

18) US dossier from October 2013 referred a waiting child (#2076) with a profile on the MOJ site

19) US dossier from October 2013 referred a waiting child (#1047) with a profile on the MOJ site


Nuggets For Neal - Book Sale

Another adoptive mom who believes in Neal and understands that he needs a family has graciously offered to help me raise funds through selling a book she has written.  All profits from any sales will go directly to Neal's grant fund.

The book is called Tree of Life.  It's available for $12.00 here or $9.99 as a Kindle edition via Amazon.

Tree-of-life-cover

"Connect the dots" from Genesis to Revelation!
This book is unique in that it's not just filled with Bible stories, but it is THE story of the Bible--unified, and continuous, in chronological order, from the book of Genesis, through the book of Revelation. Readers will get the big picture of God's plan of salvation for mankind!  This book is a great accompaniment to the Bible, and will help readers gain more insight into the Word of God. 
 Free audio book download included with purchase! 


Also available: The Tree of Life Curriculum Guide:
Download Free Curriculum Guide 
Over 500 activities & questions to help readers gain a deeper understanding of the scriptures!

You can purchase the Kindle edition of the book directly from Amazon:

http://www.amazon.com/The-Tree-Life-Garden-Jerusalem-ebook/dp/B00GFVE90A/ref=tmm_kin_title_popover?ie=UTF8&qid=1385358150&sr=8-2

Please email me at viviane 8 at yahoo dot com if you have any questions.


Sunday, December 1, 2013

Looking A Lot Like Christmas

I have a strict rule about no Christmas decorations going up before December 1, so today finally started the magical holiday season in our home.

I broke down and bought a mini real Christmas tree at Whole Foods.  We have it on the mantle where hopefully Rex cannot get to it.  It has a battery-powered LED light string, so there's no point of contact for Rex unless he moves and climbs a chair. I threw all of my style preferences to the wind and just hung the ornaments that have most meaning for us: one-of-a-kind glass globes blown by our friend Yuri, a pomegranate from Armenia, a ballet slipper from Bulgaria, a German ornament, an ornament Rex made at school, a picture ornament of our first photo with Rex, and a bunch more. The stockings are special, too: we purchased the little one for Emilia in Bulgaria and Rex's was custom-made after we won it in an adoption auction supporting another family.  I'm not sure about keeping the wreath up.  It might just be too much.


This afternoon, I baked our first batch of Christmas cookies from a new recipe.  Nothing fancy, but yummy.  The only thing I will do differently when I make these again is to roll sanding sugar into the dough log prior to cutting and baking for an even prettier look.


And, the incredible cuteness of Christmas pajamas has arrived.  I could just eat these babies up.



P.S. Thanks to those of you who have inquired about the outcome of Rex's medical testing on November 18.  All went well at the hospital and Rex was an incredible trooper.  We were relieved and thankful when all results came back as normal and the doctors' suspicions were proven to be wrong.  Among other things, we now know that Rex has perfect hearing through the brain stem, dispelling his Armenian diagnosis of severe hearing loss once and for all.

Friday, November 29, 2013

Nuggets For Neal - Stocking Stuffer Reminder

IF YOU WISH TO BUY AN ORNAMENT (NOT PICTURED IN THIS POST), PLEASE EMAIL ME AT VIVIANE 8 AT YAHOO DOT COM.


Just a reminder that my fundraiser for little Neal is still going on.  Thanks to all who have so generously contributed.  As you can see, his grant has grown to $700 and will hopefully reach $1000 by year's end. 


With the holidays fast approaching, here are some cute stocking stuffers for the little girls in your life.  All proceeds from this sale will go directly to the Neal Grant Fund at Hopscotch Adoptions (see fundraising thermometer on the right).  There will be several payment options which I will email to you after I receive your order.


Ponytail Holders Set 1: Red & Blue Crayons - $3.00 SOLD
Ponytail Holders Set 2: Orange & Green Crayons - $3.00 SOLD
Ponytail Holders Set 3: Yellow & Purple Crayons - $3.00 SOLD
Ponytail Holders Set 4: Red Hands - $3.00
Ponytail Holders Set 5: Blue Hands - $3.00
Ponytail Holders Set 6: Green & Orange Hands - $3.00 SOLD
Ponytail Holders Set 7: Blue & Yellow Hands - $3.00 SOLD


The infinity scarves measure anywhere from 12 to 15 inches.  They are made from 100% cotton, except for the flower embellishment.

Infinity Scarf 1: Purple & Orange- $12.00
Infinity Scarf 2: Purple & Hot Pink - $12.00 SOLD
Infinity Scarf 3: White & Hot Pink- $12.00 SOLD
Infinity Scarf 4: Purple, Orange & Hot Pink- $12.00
Infinity Scarf 5: Purple, Orange & White- $12.00



These aprons were made by my mom for little crafters, cooks and bakers.  Some tie in the back behind the neck, others are one-pieces that you just slip over your head.  They should fit little girls who wear sizes 2T-4T.  Emilia is petite, currently in 3T-4T, around 30 pounds and 34 inches and they fit her perfectly over a t-shirt.

Apron 1: Orange, Pink & Brown Dots - $12.00 SOLD
Apron 2: Blue & Brown Dots- $12.00 SOLD
Apron 3: Flowers & Birds - $12.00
Apron 4: Green & Brown Stripes- $12.00



If you would like to buy any of these items and help a wonderful little boy find his family, please email me at viviane8 at yahoo dot com.  Thanks so much for your support.



For more information about Neal, please email waitingchild@hopscotchadoptions.org.

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

IAC 262 Results

The following referrals were issued in IAC Session 262 which was held on October 23, 2013:

1) French dossier from November 2009 referred a male child aged 4 years and 3 months

2) Dutch dossier from February 2010 referred a female child aged 3 years and 5 months

3) Dutch dossier from March 2010 referred a female child aged 2 years and 3 months

4) US dossier from April 2010 referred a female child aged 1 year and 11 months

5) Italian dossier from May 2010 referred a male child aged 3 years and 10 months

6) Spanish dossier from May 2010 referred a male child aged 3 years and 5 months with features in health status

7) Dutch dossier from June 2010 referred a male child aged 5 years and 3 months

8) Italian dossier from July 2010 referred a male child aged 6 years and 4 months

9) German dossier from March 2011 referred a female child aged 3 years and 5 months with features in health status

10) Dutch dossier from October 2012 referred a male child aged 2 years and 9 months with features in health status

11) German dossier from January 2013 referred a female child aged 2 years and 1 months with features in health status

12) Italian dossier from January 2013 referred a brother and sister aged 10 years and 2 months & 8 years and 8 months

13) Italian dossier from February 2013 referred a male child aged 8 years and 3 months with features in health status

14) US dossier from May 2013 referred two female children aged 9 years and 9 months & 9 years and 5 months

15) Italian dossier from May 2013 referred a female child aged 10 years and 11 months

A Wonderful Weekend

This past weekend our family had the privilege of spending some time in WV with four other families who adopted beautiful children from Armenia.  It was an utterly enjoyable experience with good friends, yummy food, and many fun activities.  We hope to do it again soon.

These photos tell the story, but I am protecting the privacy of the other children by not posting any of the great close-ups of them here.

Dads kicking back with their children
My kids loved the pool
and both are so confident in the water now
Time to color
I adore that Emilia still wants this closeness
Puppies at snack time?
Everyone loved the parachute play

Watching deer from our cabin's deck
Blessed with hand-me-downs,
she turned into a super model
These princesses were crazy about Craig
Midnight at the cabin
The horse menagerie
Communal baths and potty times
were not unusual
Driving through the big Christmas light display

Monday, November 25, 2013

Tipping The Scales

Today would have been my dad's 62nd birthday.  He died in 2006.  Typically, this is a day of remembrance for my family, especially for my mom who still feels his loss very acutely.



But this year, my dad's birthday is associated with a different milestone. Today, Rex is tipping the scales.  Today Rex has been in our family longer than he was in state care in Armenia.  I know today isn't going to be different from any other Monday we've had this school year.  Rex isn't suddenly going to overcome his challenges because of a special date on the calendar.  There isn't a magic switch flipping today that will erase his experiences of the first two and a half years of his life.  But, the date does mean something to me.  Rex's life is with us and we have filled it with love, joy, adventures, learning opportunities, trust, safety, family - as opposed to what he had before we adopted him.  Our efforts are bearing fruit in Rex's heart and mind and he is so very changed from the child we brought home in July 2011, changed even from the boy he was a year ago.  Time does play a part in that process and today we mark it by acknowledging that the scales have tipped.  Rex was an orphan for too long, but has now been a son, brother, grandson, cousin, nephew, and friend for longer.

Even though they never met, I am pretty sure that my dad, who wasn't always easy to live with, but whom I miss nonetheless, is very proud of his first and only grandson.



Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Nuggets For Neal - Stocking Stuffers For The Girls

With the holidays fast approaching, here are some cute stocking stuffers for the little girls in your life.  All proceeds from this sale will go directly to the Neal Grant Fund at Hopscotch Adoptions (see fundraising thermometer on the right).  There will be several payment options which I will email to you after I receive your order.

Ponytail Holders Set 1: Red & Blue Crayons - $3.00 SOLD
Ponytail Holders Set 2: Orange & Green Crayons - $3.00 SOLD
Ponytail Holders Set 3: Yellow & Purple Crayons - $3.00 SOLD
Ponytail Holders Set 4: Red Hands - $3.00
Ponytail Holders Set 5: Blue Hands - $3.00
Ponytail Holders Set 6: Green & Orange Hands - $3.00 SOLD
Ponytail Holders Set 7: Blue & Yellow Hands - $3.00 SOLD


The infinity scarves measure anywhere from 12 to 15 inches.  They are made from 100% cotton, except for the flower embellishment.

Infinity Scarf 1: Purple & Orange- $12.00
Infinity Scarf 2: Purple & Hot Pink - $12.00 SOLD
Infinity Scarf 3: White & Hot Pink- $12.00 SOLD
Infinity Scarf 4: Purple, Orange & Hot Pink- $12.00
Infinity Scarf 5: Purple, Orange & White- $12.00 SOLD



These aprons were made by my mom for little crafters, cooks and bakers.  Some tie in the back behind the neck, others are one-pieces that you just slip over your head.  They should fit little girls who wear sizes 2T-4T.  Emilia is petite, currently in 3T-4T, around 30 pounds and 34 inches and they fit her perfectly over a t-shirt.

Apron 1: Orange, Pink & Brown Dots - $12.00 SOLD
Apron 2: Blue & Brown Dots- $12.00 SOLD
Apron 3: Flowers & Birds - $12.00
Apron 4: Green & Brown Stripes- $12.00



If you would like to buy any of these items and help a wonderful little boy find his family, please email me at viviane8 at yahoo dot com.  Thanks so much for your support.



For more information about Neal, please email waitingchild@hopscotchadoptions.org.

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

IAC 261 Results

The following referrals were issued in IAC Session 261 which was held on October 9, 2013:

1) Cyprus dossier from May 2009 referred a male child aged 2 years and 8 months

2) Danish dossier from March 2010 referred a male child aged 2 years

3) US dossier from June 2010 referred a female child aged 2 years and 3 months with features in health status

4) US dossier from October 2010 referred a male child aged 2 years and 6 months with features in health status and a family history

5) Italian dossier from December 2010 referred a female child aged 2 years and 5 months with features in health status

6) Dutch dossier from May 2011 referred a female child aged 2 years and 5 months with features in health status

7) Italian dossier from June 2011 referred a male child aged 7 years and 9 months

8) US dossier from July 2011 referred a female child aged 1 year and 6 months with features in health status

9) US dossier from December 2011 referred a male child aged 2 years and 1 month with features in health status

10) US dossier from March 2012 referred a female child aged 8 years and 9 months

11) Italian dossier from May 2012 referred a female child aged 8 years and 4 months with features in health status and a family history

12) US dossier from July 2012 referred a female child aged 1 year and 7 months with features in health status

13) Italian dossier from February 2013 referred a male child aged 7 years and 4 months with a family history

14) US dossier from March 2013 referred a female child aged 1 year and 11 months with features in health status

15) Italian dossier from April 2013 referred a male child aged 9 years and 4 months

16) US dossier from September 2013 referred a waiting child (#613) with a profile on the MOJ site

17) Canadian dossier from September 2013 referred a waiting child (#2185) with a profile on the MOJ site

18) US dossier from October 2013 referred two waiting children (#1406 & #2679) with profiles on the MOJ site

Sunday, November 17, 2013

Weekend Review

It's been a busy weekend for us, but also very productive.

Yesterday, there was a big fundraiser at Rex's preschool, a holiday bazaar with 28 vendors.  Since I was the main organizer of the event, I was there from before 8:00 am until after 4:00 pm.  Fortunately, I had lots of help from other parents and the preschool staff.  Once we totaled our earnings at the end of the day, we had raised over $1220  for the kids' classroom.  I can't wait to decide how to spend the funds and see the children get new equipment, materials, and experiences.



Today was a day to catch up at home: laundry, dishes, cleaning, paperwork, and re-organizing the basement as we need to put up two walls now to keep Rex contained in the play area and away from the storage and furnace/water heater.

In the afternoon I baked a batch of cookies for our local firemen.  It's part of a November Giving Back initiative that Craig and his team at work are doing this month.  So much fun to be a part of it.  Craig and Rex are heading to the firehouse in a few minutes to drop off these Oatmeal Ginger Chewies:


Tomorrow will be a rough day as Rex will be going under anesthesia for several hours for extensive medical testing.  We have to be at the hospital at 6:30 and probably won't leave there until about 1:00 pm.  I  know I will not rest easy until my little boy has woken up from the anesthesia and is his energetic self again.  If you would keep Rex in your thoughts during this time tomorrow, we'd appreciate it so much.

I'll leave you with our favorite weekend memory, some minutes of sweet sibling love in front of the TV:


Thursday, November 14, 2013

Together Forever Day 2013

Two years ago today, I traveled across Bulgaria, from the capital city of Sofia to the Black Sea coast, to pick up our little girl from the only place she'd ever known, the orphanage in Dobrich.  The child I scooped into my arms forever that day was not well: significantly malnourished, severely anemic, scared, confused, and socially and emotionally starved.

Since then Emilia has found trust and love in a family that adores her.  She has become confident, adventurous, loving, and full of joy.  And yes, she has found her tongue and with that her voice (we'll kick you to the curb yet, apraxia), opening a steadily widening window into her mind.


Since that snowy November day, Emilia has found her bright smile and happiness.  In those early weeks with her, we couldn't distinguish Emilia's cry from her laughter because it all sounded the same.  Today, her giggles peal through our home every single day and tears are far and few between.


And Emilia has found her spark, her will to live, her zest for life.  She has gone from frightened, resigned and withdrawn to a cheerfully determined, spunky preschooler who won't be slowed down by her tiny size or her developmental delays.


Happy Together Forever Day, my sweet and wonderful daughter.  You are the sunshine in our universe and we couldn't imagine life without you.  Keep following your own yellow brick road and I know you will bless and be blessed along the way.

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

November 12, 2010

Three years ago today we met Rex for the first time.  That day, possibly above all others I have lived, is etched into my memory with such clarity and emotional force that I cry every single time I think about it.  As long as my mind doesn't fail me, I will remember those first precious hours with Rex.

Here's a little video taken in the afternoon of our first day together.  It's when we first saw Rex's wide smile and heard his infectious laugh, both of which today are such anchors in our life when we brave the often rough and stormy waters of being his parents.


My amazing boy, I loved you then, I love you now, and I will love you forever.

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Nuggets For Neal - Are You Ready For Some Football?

Do you want to see a live NFL game and help a special little boy find his family?  Here's your chance!



Craig is offering his 2 season tickets for the Colts vs. Titans game on December 1, 2013 at 1:00 pm ET for auction.  The seats are in Section 615, Row 17 at Lucas Oil Stadium in Indianapolis.  You will be watching the game from the 25 yard line.

Photo taken from Craig's actual seats
How it works:

1) The auction will run for seven days from when this post goes up until Wednesday, November 13, 2013 at 8:00 am ET.

2) I will contact the highest bidder on 11/13/2013 with the final total cost for the tickets.  I will ask the winner to send a check in that amount to Hopscotch Adoption's Neal Grant Fund within seven days by 11/20/13.  This will be a tax-deductible donation to Hopscotch.

3) If the highest bidder fails to pay in the allotted amount of time, the tickets will be offered to the second highest bidder.

4) Once I get word from Hopscotch that the donation has been received, I will either snail mail your tickets or send them electronically through Ticket Master Exchange.  Your choice, provided you leave me enough time to use USPS.

5) All money raised will be added directly to Neal's Grant Fund.  This money will be available to a family who registers with him for adoption in his hometown or, should he not be adopted, be used for his care and education as an adult.

Bidding:

Bidding for the tickets starts at $70.  That's 50% off their list price.  To place a bid, please email me at viviane 8 at yahoo dot com and provide your name and mailing address.  I will update this post periodically to reflect the current highest bid and also email bidders with this information.

Thanks for being a part of this little boy's story.  And go Colts!


Monday, November 4, 2013

Learning Her Colors

Here's Emilia showing off some of the colors she knows.  In addition to the ones in this video, she can also identify pink and white.


We are so proud of her.

Sunday, November 3, 2013

Orphan Sunday 2013

ORPHANS:



BELOVED SON & DAUGHTER:




Not everyone is willing, able or called to adopt.  But everyone can make a difference in an orphan's life:


The little boy in this story is "Neal."  He lives in an orphanage in Eastern Europe that I know very well. Please consider giving to the Neal Grant Fund (see thermometer on the right) through Hopscotch Adoptions.  Your donation will be tax deductible.  All money raised is available to help offset the cost of adoption to the family who registers to adopt Neal in his hometown.  If Neal is not adopted, the money will wait for him to assist with his care and education as an adult.  If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me at viviane 8 at yahoo dot com.

Stay tuned for more information and fundraisers for Neal.