Monday, May 6, 2019

How To Close Out A Home School Year


The last few weeks of the school year can be tough for students whose exhaustion from work and excitement for summer are steadily mounting.  Home school is no exception to that rule, so here are some tips from Ella and me on how to survive the end of the home school year and still obtain valuable educational hours.

Health and Safety/ Life Skills: when table work gets too drudging, we opt for tasks around our home.  Anything from baking bread to pool maintenance, planting vegetables to organizing closets is fair game because some day those skills may come in handy.

Movies and Videos: with resources like YouTube and Amazon, it’s easy to find movies that tie into the curriculum. For example, Ella recently watched and very much enjoyed Hidden Figures which connected with social studies (segregation, space exploration) and Ohio Studies (John Glenn).

Field Trips: strawberry picking, an afternoon at the zoo, and a trip to the bank to open a first savings account all intertwine with portions of the fourth grade curriculum and count toward our required 900 hours.

More PE: sunny days are back again and riding bikes, jumping on the trampoline, and swimming are all considered physical education in this home school.

Music and Art: we saved some lessons in these two subjects for last because it’s really more fun to learn about Duke Ellington and try swing dancing than it’s doing fractions.  And Ella’ll take trying to draw a Gothic building over a grammar lesson any day.

Quiet Reading /Read Aloud: reading fiction has been a highlight all year long, so when we feel like a break, but still need to get those hours in, we can pull out our respective novels or read together in our shared books.

In less than 100 hours, my big girl will no longer be an elementary schooler, but move into her middle school years.  Cue the tears – time’s flying.  Didn’t she just start Kindergarten?

Sunday, May 5, 2019

Five Years

Five years ago today we met Ella in Armenia.  The walls around her heart were like a fortress.  The transformation continues.


Saturday, April 13, 2019

IAC 453 & 454

The following referrals were issued in IAC Session 453 which was held on February 14, 2019:

1) Italian dossier from January 2014 referred sisters aged 5 years and 1 month & 6 years and 6 months with features in health status

2) Italian dossier from April 2016 referred sisters aged 9 years and 10 months & 8 years and 6 months with a family history

3) US dossier from March 2018 referred a sibling group aged 7 years and 7 months, 5 years and 3 months & 10 years

4) French dossier from May 2018 referred a male child aged 10 years and 7 months with features in health status

5) US dossier from July 2018 referred a waiting child (#3632) with a profile on the MOJ site

6) US dossier from February 2019 referred a waiting child (#3597) with a profile on the MOJ site

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The following referrals were issued in IAC Session 454 which was held on February 21, 2019:

1) Norwegian dossier from August 2012 referred a male child aged 1 year and 7 months

2) Spanish dossier from October 2012 referred a male child aged 3 years and 11 months

3) French dossier from September 2014 referred a male child aged 1 year and 9 months with features in health status

4) Italian dossier from August 2015 referred sisters aged 7 years and 11 months & 5 years and 3 months with features in health status

5) Italian dossier from April 2016 referred a female child aged 10 years and 5 months with features in health status and a family history

6) US dossier from January 2017 referred a male child aged 1 year and 8 months with features in health status

7) French dossier from October 2017 referred a brother and sister aged 5 years and 7 months & 7 years and 8 months with features in health status and a family history

8) US dossier from November 2017 siblings aged 5 years and 4 months & 4 years and 1 month & 8 years

9) US dossier from February 2019 referred a waiting child (#3422) with a profile on the MOJ site

10 ) US dossier from February 2019 referred two waiting children (#3622 & #3623) with profiles on the MOJ site

Tuesday, April 9, 2019

Tuesdays With...

... well, not with Maury, but with Craig.  Since the start of this school year, Craig and I have tried to take some time to ourselves by going out to breakfast every Tuesday morning.  We've missed some weeks, of course, but when we do make it to our little corner cafe, it's such a treat on so many levels.


Monday, April 1, 2019

Random Words Of Appreciation

One of Rex's former therapists who still comes around to babysit or just to spend time with us sent me this message today:

I just wanted to share with you guys about how lucky I am to have Rex and all of you in my life!  I am so happy that you guys still involve me in your life after all these years.  Rex and all of you mean a lot to me and I just wanted you to know.

Sometimes it just takes a short text to have me dissolve into tears.  Our village may be small, but it's wonderful.

Tuesday, March 26, 2019

Our Western Spring Break Adventure

As part of her fourth grade home school curriculum, Ella has been studying the five main US regions.  After Christmas, I realized that she had already visited three regions in the first half of the school year (Michigan - Midwest, Louisiana - Southeast, Maryland - Northeast), so I thought it would be fun if she could experience the remaining two regions as well.  And in that moment, a spring break travel plan was born.  Come along.

Day 1: Leave home and arrive in Phoenix (Southwest region is covered).  Breakfast at Matt's Big Breakfast.  Visit the Pueblo Grande Museum and Archaeological Park.  Swim to our hearts' content at the hotel.


Day 2: Soak up the sun with a long morning walk in the park and at the playground.  Drive to California (West region is covered) making one hot stop at a desert playground.  Arrive in the California hills for quiet and relaxation.


Day 3: Joshua Tree National Park which was a natural feast for our eyes, hearts and spirits.  It's bizarrely beautiful with ever-changing flora, fauna and landscape, elevation and temperature.


Day 4: Relaxing morning in California.  Enjoy the desert in bloom (no picture can capture the beauty of the colors and the intoxicating smell). Drive back to Phoenix.


Day 5: Visit the Pioneer Living History Museum.  Swim at the rental house.  Barbecue.

Day 6: Fly home.

Friday, March 22, 2019

Ten Years Ago

[written on Rex's birthday]

Ten years ago today, a baby boy was born in an Armenian hospital.  He arrived to a mother, father and brother that had happily anticipated him.  They had waited for him and prepared for him and celebrated his coming with extended family.

Ten years ago today, a baby boy was born in an Armenian hospital.  He was strong and vibrant.  He cried loudly and stretched his limbs.  But his face was marred by a significant cranio-facial difference.

Ten years ago today, a baby boy was born in an Armenian hospital.  His family looked at him in shock, confusion, and disappointment.  Doctors looked at him in disgust and advised that he could not and should not live in open society. Rather, they suggested, he should be placed behind the walls of an orphanage where he would not offend or burden.

Ten years ago today, a baby boy was born in an Armenian hospital and his life's path changed in an instant.  He did not go home with his parents and brother, but was sent into a secret, lonely place reserved for those who are different.

Ten years ago today, a husband and wife had just begun their road of adoption.  Little did they know that their son to be was born mere weeks after they made the decision to adopt.  Little did they know that the faraway baby boy with the unique face would be one of their greatest gifts, their hardest teacher, their most demanding challenge, their ultimate game changer, their most rewarding work, and the giver and receiver of deepest love.


Happy tenth birthday, Rex.  
Your story changed our story.  
And now there's the story of us.